Mmm. See, that's always gonna get you into trouble.

[ and it's definitely personal experience informing her perspective here, because she knows all about what violence performed as a declaration of love looks like. or what she thought was love at the time. of course it's always easier to tell when something might've been messed up once you're standing on the other side of it. ]

Doin' something for somebody else. Or saying that it was for someone else when really it mighta been more for you if you were well and truly honest with yourself. Which, okay, it's tougher to be honest with yourself about that kinda thing.